Do You Have What It Takes to Conquer This 30-Day Sex Challenge?
Thirty days of sex is, well, a lot of sex. But it’s worth it! More sex can make you feel closer to your partner, and also orgasms are great. I’m pretty sure orgasms are the reason we’re all on this green Earth, so go out there and get yours. Have a sexecellent month of boning.
Hit up first base only for 30 minutes. Sometimes long term couples forget just to kiss, and kissing is majorly bonding. And sexy! Set a timer and go to town.
Quickies are always fun because they're so spontaneous, so pick a random place today to get it on: the laundry room, the stairs, the car...
Have sex somewhere other than the bedroom. I mean, you have a whole big house to explore, and to fuck in! The couch, the kitchen counter, up against the bookcase? Only you know the best place to get freaky in your own home.
Stay at hotel in your city. Hotel sex is always super fun, and freeing, and great. There’s something about rolling around in sheets you don’t have to clean that makes you lose all inhibitions.
Do it up by having ultimate romance sexy times. I’m talking candles, lingerie (if that’s something you both consider ~romantic~), essential oils, rose petals, the works. If it doesn’t look like a Harlequin romance novel cover, you’re doing it wrong.
Sext it up. You do not need to send fully naked pics for this to be hot. Just text your partner exactly what you'd like to do to them when they get home and let the tension build all damn day.
Spice up missionary with this classic twist. Try stacking a few pillows underneath your butt before your partner enters via peen or strap-on. This totally changes up the angle and offers *~ deeper ~* penetration.
Try three Cosmo sex positions in one session. Cosmo has about a million and one amazing positions, and tonight you must accomplish three of them that you haven’t tried before.
Buy a sex toy together. Head to your local (feminist, inclusive!) sex shop, buy something intriguing, and then use it! If there’s no non-sleazoid sex shop in your town, buy something online together and then use it when it arrives. Do #13 while you wait and then sub this one back in!
Give yourself a night off if you’re not feeling like it. I mean, this is supposed to be fun. Take a break if you want or need to! Whatever! Not even *you* should pressure you into sex!
Watch some porn together. Even the process of picking something you're both into can make you feel super bonded as a couple. See if it inspires any ideas or new positions. Might I suggest this list of feminist-friendly porn, this super inclusive porn, or these artfully shot feature films? Then again, there's always Netflix...
I'm not going to sit here and tell you to give a blow job with an ice cube in your mouth. I am, however, going to tell your partner to suck on an ice cube for a few minutes, spit it out, and then go down on you. It'll give you chills in the best way, without the frostbite.
Masturbate in front of each other. Give each other a show! Masturbate in front of each other for as long as you can handle it before you have to bone.
Then try mutual masturbation. Never underestimate the power of a good hand job! It’s an art. Masturbate *each other* until you have to bone.
Try reading erotica to each other. Read some sexy, fun, feminist erotica to each other in bed until you can’t take it anymore — bonus points if you try the moves from the erotica together!
Have sex in the morning, then sex in the evening. Double the pleasure, double the fun! Having sex first thing will start your day off right, and ending with sex will ensure sweet dreams. It's just science.
Sloooooow things down with some tantric-level, take-your-time sex. Really focus on the sensation of each thrust, tongue flick, and caress. You'll be thinking about this one well into day 24.
Try a ~sexy~ massage. OK, I saved the best for the middle, because a sexy massage into sex is the absolute greatest. Nothing like having your partner rub warm oil into your back and butt and then flipping you over for sex. I mean, it’s just guaranteed non-stop ticket to bonetown, plus it smells amazing.
Try one of Cosmo’s craziest/silliest/funniest sex tips. Here are your choices: 1. Eat a donut off the person’s private parts (Doesn’t have to be a penis; just push that thing on to an erogenous zone and go to town!), a grapefruit blow job (!!!) if your partner has a penis, any of these deliciously wild positions, or any of these insane things. The more it makes you laugh at first, the better. There’s something for everyone in those, so pick a fave and go nuts!
Have sex at a weird time (for you, as a couple). Do you always have sex in the morning? Well, try a midday quickie! Are you evening only? Wake your girlfriend up with oral. You get the idea. Mix it up!
Orgasm without sex. Get each other off without penetration of any kind. That’s the only rule, and OMG, it’s so good.
Have Shades of Whatever sex. I know, I know. It’s so ridiculous. But honestly, handcuffs are fun, and so are blindfolds. Between Fifty Shades of Grey, Fifty Shades Darker, and Fifty Shades Freed, you should be able to find one thing that intrigues you both.
Role play it up. Hit up your closets for some makeshift costumes (unless you already have some! Props for the props!) and then really ~inhabit~ your character. This only works if you both know you look silly, and decide just to go for it. Maybe you’re a sexy firewoman and she’s a bad girl who needs to be punished for accidentally letting her cat get stuck in a tree? (See, whatever you come up with will be better than that!)
Just regular ol’ lazy sex. Just do your thing! Like, whatever you want to do. Lazy missionary. Lazy penis rubs. Lazy clitoris stimulation. Just relax and then...
Have crazy loud sex. Make sure it’s a time when your roommates/neighbors/entire block isn’t home and then cut loose with the screams. It’s so freeing, and I swear makes the orgasm ten times as intense.
Stay up all night having sex. Or, as long as you can. But it better be until at least 2 a.m.! And you better be having sex or about to have sex the entire time! It’ll make you feel like you’re back at the beginning of your relationship when all you did was get busy.
Have sex with the music on. OK, this might seem kinda cheesy, but blasting a favorite slow jam from high school, or just some crazy sexy music like Marvin Gaye or Roxy Music can really instantly heighten that feeling of sexiness. Bonus points for making a sex soundtrack during the day. DO IT!
Literally rip each other’s clothes off sex. Make sure it’s stuff you both aren’t too in love with — maybe an old tank top you were gonna get rid of anyway — and then just go at it like animals, baby.
Workout together and then bone. Get those endorphins going before you get each other going. Meow!
Compliment the hell out of each other. Then have sex. You made it through a month of sex, and you deserve to tell each other that you’re sex gods/goddesses who blow each other’s minds on the regular. Nothing’s hotter than your partner finding you hot, and this will cement that bond. Now go have sex one more time, and keep the momentum going into next month!
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